refactor!: cleaner message history sync

This is a breaking change,
1. three events (chats.set, contacts.set, messages.set) are now just one `messaging-history.set` event
2. no need to debounce for app state sync
3. added a new "conditional" chat update to allow for correct app state sync despite not having the chat available on hand

src/Socket/socket.ts

@@ -535,7 +535,7 @@ export const makeSocket = ({
 		const name = update.me?.name
 		// if name has just been received
 		if(creds.me?.name !== name) {
-			logger.info({ name }, 'updated pushName')
+			logger.debug({ name }, 'updated pushName')
 			sendNode({
 				tag: 'presence',
 				attrs: { name: name! }